Ques:
I have a family, but they only seem to care when I have money.
When I'm without it, their concern disappears. Even if I haven't eaten for 3-4 days, it doesn't matter to them, and they never ask about it.
However, they are always sure to inquire about when the next payment will come in.
Ans:
This is the ultimate truth about family and parents.😆😂
It's just not happening with you but all of us. My mother always kicks me out of the house shouting, "Get out of here, no place for sitting idle in this house. Either be outside earning money or just be out. Don't come until you have earned something. And if you are unable to earn something today then just be outside and come only at night for food and sleep. But don't stay idle in the house during the daytime. Now get lost."
If you have 2 or 3 brothers, it's worse because the brother who earns more will get more respect. There is nothing like mom's love or father's love.😂 Everyone is just a distinct human. There is no divine or motherly connection between mother and son as we see in movies. In movies when a son gets hurt in another city the mother knows that my son got hurt. This is scientifically and medically not true. It's superstition. There is no connection between two people like love or bond. Love is inside our brain and not in our heart. We program ourselves to love someone. So we can reprogram ourselves to hate that same person and then again reprogram to love that same person. Where we do this we call it our home and our family. With our parents and siblings. Programming to love. Programming to hate. And then again reprogramming to love. And so on till death do us apart.
Thank you!